Moment of awakening

When I started on my quest for a balanced life I knew what the vision was and what I wanted. It was taking forever to get it and when I finally gave up on many components of it and I acknowledged that I did not like how not achieving my vision made me feel, that was when I had started my moment of awakening. Rather than just pushing on with actions to achieve the vision I wanted to work on letting go of feelings that I was tired of having.

I have been looking at the clients I have been attracting for transformation coaching packages and asked myself what type of clients I am attracting. The ones that are coming to me are mostly those who want to let go of negative

feelings/emotions that they are tired of having. They are exhausted feeling the way they do and they do not want to feel that way anymore. Their focus is more on letting go of negative feelings first and foremost.

When people want to let go of negative feelings they are ready for the greatest transformation. This is where I was and what brought about the greatest transformation in my life and the start of the real awakening to who I authentically am as an individual, how unique each individual is and how what we prioritise in life determines our destiny. This point about how what we prioritise in life determines our destiny is an absolute game changer in ways that I cannot find any words to highlight or articulate to you what a game changer this reality is. It was an aha moment for me to realise why I had not succeeded achieving goals in certain areas of life and what the specific action is that is needed to achieve goals not in my hierarchy of my top 3 life priorities. This is a level of self-awareness at a transformative level that I coach on and teach.

Before I even became privy to this wisdom, I had shifted my highest life priorities bringing into my top 3 priorities a priority that was lower for about 38 years of my life. By age 46 I realized how I had raised this to a high life priority consciously lowering another high life priority. So I could see how what I teach on how to bring in a new life priority into the top 3 priorities had actually been done by me. I was so grateful I had done this and finally could see the person I was resenting was actually the reason behind me having the strength to achieve this. I released the resentment at that point. This was a feeling I was wanting to let go of. This wanting to release the feeling of resentment was my big opportunity to awaken. The individual had been more of a spiritual friend helping me achieve my vision of balanced life instead of the villain I saw the individual to be. Dissolving that resentment (the feeling I wanted to no longer experience that was like some monkey I was carrying on my shoulder daily) had a ripple effect enabling me to do the work on myself to see the benefits of others I resented and so I started to become more balanced in my perspective of others and myself. And that leads to more objectivity and that opens doors to more opportunities to serve ever greater numbers of people and so my coaching business started to grow.

I started to connect with those who strive for mastery of life moment to moment and understand that mastery every moment is a challenge. They taught me about a balanced me first & foremost, both the good & bad that will be perceived. This mastery entails working on ones self first and foremost. The key element of the work is self-awareness.

It is far more fulfilling to help people who are ready to work on themselves than just want others to work on themselves. These are the people I have greater coaching sustainability with, who take the package of coaching sessions versus the once off session. These are the people I am searching to connect with to be of service to. These are the people that are in their prime of awakening and opening the door for the greatest transformation no words can describe.

Where are you in your headspace? Do you have feelings you want to let go off that are holding you back, exhausting your mind and not serving you to be the best you that you want to be? If you want to work on yourself, I would love to be of service to you. My client reviews speak for themself. Please get in touch with me.

Wishing you equanimity within.

Lots of love,

Rajes